tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403432524962865970.post4012535586991327351..comments2023-10-21T00:41:24.781-10:00Comments on Mama Simmons: What It's Like To Have A MiscarriageMichelle Simmonshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10301323188060167291noreply@blogger.comBlogger60125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403432524962865970.post-8646327130641734412013-07-15T15:50:36.966-10:002013-07-15T15:50:36.966-10:00Thank you for writing this. I found out i was preg...Thank you for writing this. I found out i was pregant with what have been my 4th child about 5 weeks ago. At week 8 i was told no heart beat. The worst was the whole time both me and my husband were detached from the pregnacy and felt it was different. I have too alowed my body to do what it beeds to and onw at week 10 its finally desiding to do it right now. And your post is the first one i read when i googled what i am about to go through and everything u wrote is exactly how i feel. Im so sorry you went through that i hope i can stay strong like you. XoAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06238149195013196259noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403432524962865970.post-18690046137398844092012-01-29T09:42:21.397-10:002012-01-29T09:42:21.397-10:00I know you posted this in 2009, but I'm fortun...I know you posted this in 2009, but I'm fortunate to have found this today. What happened to you is EXACTLY what is happening to me as I type this. I'm in between trips to the bathroom. I'm in my 11th week. It was an unplanned, unexpected pregnancy, but we accepted it and went with it. The baby died in my uterus at about 6 weeks. I didn't know until just a few days ago, and here we are, 4-5 weeks later, and the baby is now leaving my body. I also have other children but the sense of emptiness inside me right now is so vast, it feels like it's never ending. I hope time has healed your emotional wounds, as I hope it heals mine. Life will go on... it just doesn't feel like it right now. Thank you for letting me comment, e.g.: talk about things.GBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03438263015078788527noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403432524962865970.post-11908582096540542072010-09-21T12:00:38.559-10:002010-09-21T12:00:38.559-10:00THANK YOU FOR THIS POST. Someone pointed me over h...THANK YOU FOR THIS POST. Someone pointed me over here. I just miscarried at 8.5 weeks (though the embryo was 6 weeks, that was part of the problem; it was delayed in developing from the start). Thank you so much for this post. Thank you thank you thank you. I feel normal reading it. <br /><br />My blog is runhlrun.blogspot.com (not in my profile. <br /><br />THANK YOUHeatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12013504768642605916noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403432524962865970.post-56001290987898642662010-03-20T17:42:03.090-10:002010-03-20T17:42:03.090-10:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403432524962865970.post-74906256798275395392010-03-14T00:02:21.548-10:002010-03-14T00:02:21.548-10:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403432524962865970.post-20552321410584007052010-03-07T16:32:13.258-10:002010-03-07T16:32:13.258-10:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403432524962865970.post-30285369619183412062010-02-25T01:26:00.768-10:002010-02-25T01:26:00.768-10:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403432524962865970.post-17196611745887464092010-01-01T05:08:23.927-10:002010-01-01T05:08:23.927-10:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Shevaunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03019876204181137828noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403432524962865970.post-65872301922320493712009-12-31T14:41:19.480-10:002009-12-31T14:41:19.480-10:00Very sad to read. As someone who is trying to get ...Very sad to read. As someone who is trying to get pregnant, this shows some of the troubles one can experience once you think things are okay. Thank you for sharing....SPGieckhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12276492993849886288noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403432524962865970.post-65146962175619730252009-12-31T09:51:13.213-10:002009-12-31T09:51:13.213-10:00So sorry to hear about your loss. Keep your family...So sorry to hear about your loss. Keep your family close. Good luck picking up the pieces. You are strong and I know things will work out in the end, but that doesn't mean it is always easy. We'll say some prayers for you.Charisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05215285733527015606noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403432524962865970.post-55869366770072015172009-12-31T09:25:13.425-10:002009-12-31T09:25:13.425-10:00All I can say is that I am so, so sorry. Time wil...All I can say is that I am so, so sorry. Time will make you feel better, not like before, but better. Sending a huge hug out to you.Kate Parkerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15170779535771794771noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403432524962865970.post-28912845540883289372009-12-31T08:39:58.948-10:002009-12-31T08:39:58.948-10:00I am so sorry to hear that this happened but thank...I am so sorry to hear that this happened but thank you so much for sharing your story and true feelings! I am sending big hugs to you and many blessings in 2010.fancy nancyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11645116527352135569noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403432524962865970.post-65862224342254410342009-12-31T06:32:07.805-10:002009-12-31T06:32:07.805-10:00My first reaction to your topic was: "Oh no s...My first reaction to your topic was: "Oh no she didn't!" <br /><br />To see it confirmed was a shock. I'm so sorry for you and your family. Hopefully you'll recover soon. I admire you for sharing this and think it will help a lot of women. Trust your body, it knows best.<br /><br />I send you lots of love and hugs.Sanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12904553312579151105noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403432524962865970.post-41001310791978656412009-12-31T02:59:32.171-10:002009-12-31T02:59:32.171-10:00I am sorry to hear this. There is nothing to say ...I am sorry to hear this. There is nothing to say but that it sucks. The only solace I found was knowing that if my body decided to terminate that there must have been something very wrong. Hang in there and give that little girl a big hug.Nitsirkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05180758156444549882noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403432524962865970.post-90924697793136447172009-12-30T17:00:10.499-10:002009-12-30T17:00:10.499-10:00Michelle--I am crying over here for you...so, so s...Michelle--I am crying over here for you...so, so sorry you had to go through this. Sending you hugs and prayers. Thanks for putting it out there for those who have been there, and I hope it brought you some peace. Thinking of you.Trisaratopshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03516116052466206839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403432524962865970.post-82148941204302351242009-12-30T16:20:53.160-10:002009-12-30T16:20:53.160-10:00There are no words. I am so sorry.There are no words. I am so sorry.Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01732080096484125282noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403432524962865970.post-60315196101853844502009-12-30T15:45:31.563-10:002009-12-30T15:45:31.563-10:00What a sad story. Thank you for sharing and being...What a sad story. Thank you for sharing and being honest.Meredithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15490582426886405494noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403432524962865970.post-51014392465885378332009-12-30T14:56:27.456-10:002009-12-30T14:56:27.456-10:00No words, Michelle. Just lots of love.No words, Michelle. Just lots of love.Allison Chapplehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05345469985528298687noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403432524962865970.post-3789059842758134572009-12-30T12:36:31.319-10:002009-12-30T12:36:31.319-10:00I don't have the words. I am so sorry for you...I don't have the words. I am so sorry for you loss and as always admire your strength and honesty.Alilihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18197122641986359703noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403432524962865970.post-6563659110875151422009-12-30T12:26:39.021-10:002009-12-30T12:26:39.021-10:00i am so sorry. but thank you for all the details,...i am so sorry. but thank you for all the details, because if it happens to me, i want to know what to expect, physically and emotionally. i wish everyone were as honest, life would be better.Clarehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13062114889126850617noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403432524962865970.post-55400969832481475272009-12-30T12:20:07.527-10:002009-12-30T12:20:07.527-10:00:( I am so sorry that this happened to you and you...:( I am so sorry that this happened to you and your family. Such sad news. Your post was really powerful and I admire you for sharing your story.Rebecca DeWirehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02415966459988763348noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403432524962865970.post-13270690422077205392009-12-30T08:50:16.390-10:002009-12-30T08:50:16.390-10:00Thank you for sharing your story. I think it is so...Thank you for sharing your story. I think it is so important. I had a miscarriage on Nov. 7t at 14w5d. The baby had died probably a couple of days before. I made sure to labor off of the toilet so that I didn't have to deal with the "flush or not" dilemma (I wore "disposable underwear" to catch everything in). My baby was fully formed and though my intuition says he most likely had something wrong with him that we couldn't see (there were no visible anomalies, but there could have been all kinds of stuff going on inside, I guess), I've been over and over all the things I could have possibly done wrong to cause it, etc., etc. Really difficult experience though I really feel like I've grown in ways that I would not have been able to do had I not had him. He was our third boy and we'd tried for 8 months. <br /><br />I started a miscarriage blog to separate it from my "work" blog (http://tinyfootprintsonmyheart.wordpress.com).<br /><br />(((hugs))) and thanks again for telling your story.<br /><br />MollyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403432524962865970.post-36714536031200477142009-12-30T08:27:06.594-10:002009-12-30T08:27:06.594-10:00Michelle...I am so terribly sorry about your famil...Michelle...I am so terribly sorry about your family's loss.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403432524962865970.post-1735946203912033622009-12-30T08:27:05.824-10:002009-12-30T08:27:05.824-10:00Michelle...I am so terribly sorry about your famil...Michelle...I am so terribly sorry about your family's loss.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1403432524962865970.post-14631170775805404082009-12-30T08:24:29.834-10:002009-12-30T08:24:29.834-10:00oh michelle... ow. My heart hurts so much. I only ...oh michelle... ow. My heart hurts so much. I only just read this, and I'm just so sorry you've had to go thru this. <br /><br />You're darn right that women don't talk about it enough, which while understandable makes the shock/pain that much more for others when it happens to them b/c it seems to never happen. You continue to amaze me with your courage to be in struggle, and willingness to help others who struggle.<br /><br />Even tho' I know it can't resolve the pain completely, I'm so glad you found your precious silver lining, and will be praying for you especially in the coming days. I HOPE I don't offend you by sharing this (but rather that maybe it comforts you), but I believe God is holding and caring for your little lost one right now.Katiehttp://www.facebook.com/katie.peckham?ref=profilenoreply@blogger.com